10,000 habit apps for individuals.
Finally, one built for two.
There's an app to help you learn Spanish. Meditate. Exercise. Track your finances. Build any habit you want — alone.
But the most important habit? Showing up for your partner daily.
You love each other. But when did you last show it?
It's not that you stopped caring. It's that between everything else, your relationship became the thing that could wait — until one day you realize it can't.
Most couples feel emotionally disconnected after just a few years together — not from lack of love, but lack of daily intention
Most couples apps fail because one partner quietly stops engaging — and the other is left feeling alone in the effort
$200/session for couples therapy — the price of waiting until small cracks become big ones
People don't buy what you do.
They buy why you do it.
— Simon Sinek
Love is a verb, not a noun.
The couples who last aren't luckier — they're more intentional.
There's a persistent myth that love, if real, should be effortless. That connected couples just "have it." But love isn't a state you fall into — it's a practice you show up for.
We think about relationships the way investors think about compound interest. Tiny deposits, made consistently, create extraordinary outcomes over time. A 2-second check-in today doesn't feel like much — but 365 of them reshape a relationship.
We also believe that what gets rewarded gets repeated. Not with points on a screen, but with real stakes — a dinner earned, a promise kept. When daily love has tangible payoff, it stops being a chore and starts being a game you both want to win.
We're not building a therapy app or a communication tool. We're building a compound-interest engine for love — where small daily actions stack into something neither partner can ignore.
From download to daily connection in under 3 minutes
No complicated setup. No relationship homework. Just simple habits that actually stick.
Connect with your partner
One of you downloads the app and sends an invite link. Your partner joins in seconds — no separate signups needed.
Choose your micro-habits
Pick from templates like "Good morning text" or create your own. Add optional reward stakes: "7 days = you owe me dinner!"
Check in daily (2 seconds!)
Tap from your lock screen notification. Either partner can confirm "We both did it" — works even if one forgets.
Unlock real rewards
Hit your streak, earn your reward. Your partner gets notified: "Time to deliver!" It's playful, romantic, and real.
Built different. Built for busy couples.
Every feature exists for one reason: to help you actually stick with daily connection.
Works when one partner is busy
The #1 reason couples apps fail? One partner stops using it. PairHabit is designed differently — either partner can confirm habits for both. No guilt, no nagging, no churn.
Why couples choose PairHabit
The only app that combines couples-specific design, asymmetric engagement, and real reward stakes.
What we stand for
Building a couples app comes with responsibility. Here's how we honor that trust.
Privacy-Sacred
Your relationship data is yours. We don't read it, sell it, or train AI on it.
Zero third-party analytics. No data brokers. What happens in PairHabit stays in PairHabit.
No Surveillance
This isn't a tracking app. We help you connect — not monitor each other.
No location tracking. No "activity reports." No creepy partner-watching features.
Deliberately Simple
Easy to understand. Impossible to overwhelm. We subtract features, not add them.
No 47 settings. No learning curve. Open the app, check in, done.
Time-Respectful
5 minutes a day, max. We're not trying to become your next screen time problem.
No infinite scroll. No content library. No tricks to keep you engaged longer.
Radically Fair
One partner pays, both get Premium. Charging couples twice is absurd.
Your subscription lives on your relationship, not individual accounts.
No Dark Patterns
No guilt trips. No manipulation. No "Your partner is waiting!" pressure.
If you miss a day, we don't shame you. We're not here to manipulate behavior.
What we'll never do
Some things are off the table. Permanently.
This isn't marketing fluff. It's a commitment. If we ever break these promises, you can call us out publicly — we'll deserve it.
— Luca, Founder of PairHabit
One partner pays. Both get access.
Because love shouldn't require two subscriptions.
Perfect for trying it out
Billed annually at $39.99
“Love is a verb, not a noun.”
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a daily practice?
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